And on Saturday, Beyonce was so moved by Ocean's confession that she
posted handwritten words over a picture of him online. She wrote: " Be
fearless. Be honest. Be generous. Be brave. Be poetic. Be open. Be free. Be
yourself. Be in love. Be happy. Be inspiration."
After Hurricane Katrina, Ocean, whose real name is Frank Breaux, migrated
to Los Angeles with not much more than gas and food money to launch his music
career. Before long, he had become one of the pens behind Justin Bieber, John
Legend and Beyonce. In 2009, he joined Odd Future, the outlandish, progressive
collective whose own front man Tyler the Creator has been strongly criticized
for anti-gay lyrics.
In 2011, Ocean released the critically acclaimed mix tape, Nostalgia,
Ultra,v , a refreshing, nuanced study of personal relationships and social
commentary. He wrote I Miss You on current album, Beyonce. 4, and he also
offers the riveting hook on Made in America from Jay-Z and Kanye West's Throne
album.
Ocean's self-identity revelation -- more an aside than announcement --
two days after CNN's Anderson Cooper came out. Over the past year, the Don't
Ask Don't Tell military policy was repealed and President Barack Obama
announced his support of gay marriage.
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"The climate was right. The LBGT community has shown an assertiveness and
an ownership that has created a space like never before," says Kevin Powell,
activist and author of Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, and The Ghost of Dr. King.
"This would not have happened 20 years ago."
Powell, who added his voice to the story in a Monday post to his personal
blog, said his hope is that Ocean's "very simple gesture, openly applauded by
pop culture royalty like Russell Simmons, Jay-Z and Beyonce., is the beginning
of a much-needed conversation, in entertainment, in hip-hop, in America, on
this planet, about the humanity and equality of us all, no matter who we are,
no matter where we come from, and no matter who we choose to love."
More than anything, Ocean was reflecting on loving someone who didn't
quite love him back -- or at least not in the way he wanted. His letter is
poetry, and the fact that he used the male pronoun is almost beside the point,
"Most of the day I'd see him and his smile. I'd hear his conversation and his
silence. Until it was time to sleep. Sleep I would often share with him. By
the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless. There
was no escaping, no negotiating with the feeling. No choice. It was my first
love, it changed my life.
And then, he says, "I sat there and told my friend how I felt. I wept as
the words left my mouth. I grieved for them, knowing I could never take them
back for myself. He patted my back. He said kind things. He did his best. But
he wouldn't admit the same. He had to go back inside soon, it was late and his
girlfriend was waiting for him upstairs. He wouldn't tell me the truth about
his feelings for me for another three years."
In the end, his words, his truth liberated his soul.
"I don't have any secrets I need to keep anymore. ... I feel like a free
man," he wrote. "If I listen closely. I can hear the sky falling, too."
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